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Are you overwhelmed by stress?  Do you find yourself reacting to events in your life in negative ways rather then being able to maintain peace of mind and present moment connection?  Is your focus poor?  Is anxiety and depression around allot more that you wish?  Does your child have a tough time a school because of anxiety or focus issues?

No matter what you do, when stress events occur, you cannot maintain the connection to that part of you that is cool, calm, and collected.  You have tried many approaches, but when the pressure is on, you lose in the moment awareness and a negative state takes over.

IMAGINE…

Imagine finding yourself ‘not reacting’ negatively to outer circumstances, but maintaining a calm, centered awareness that allows you to act, rather than react.  Imagine quickly letting go of those negative reactive states that cause you to lose touch with the relaxed and centered you.

How can NeurOPTIMAL™ Neurofeedback Training change how I react to outer circumstances?

When we become upset, lose focus, become depressed or angry (whatever the negative state is) our Central Nervous System, or brain. has lost touch with the present moment.  Research has demonstrated that the brain produces its own negative states, and is reliving old patterns NOW it acquired long ago.  By communicating via your brainwaves comprehensively about how it is behaving moment to moment, your brain can recognize its own volatility, stop doing it, and return to the present.

How can the brain just drop negative states and learn to come back to the present?

This is called evoking the ‘Orienting Response’which is a built-in survival behavior where it must stop everything that it is doing in that moment and return to the present to access if there is an actual threat or not. The brain is instinctively adaptable and is its very nature; this is called neuro-plasticity or neuro-adaptability. When the brain is about to produce aperturbation event,which takes you out of the present moment, that perturbation or wobbly brain-wave pattern is recognized by the computer, which interrupts the music you are listening to. Your brain must drop the negative event that it is about to produce and come back to the present moment.  It is actually very simple.  And since we now know that the brain learns from experience, it actually changes.

I have tried many approaches to deal with my issues but this sounds too easy.

Because of the sophistication of the personal computer, we can now communicate with the Central Nervous System, or brain. in its own language.  We are able to train the brain to stop producing its own negative states on the instinctual level by simply providing it with information about how it is behaving. People are quite surprised at how they begin to automatically and effortlessly drop behaviors that once caused them personal suffering, where prior to this training, no matter what they did, they would still respond negatively when the pressure was on.

How many sessions will I need to see changes?

Since everyone is unique, I can’t tell you how many you will need.  Generally clients say they notice shifts within within six to ten sessions, some as early as one or two sessions.  I recall one client who immediately saw how much anxiety she had been living with during only her first session.  She was quite surprised to say the least when she experienced letting go of that anxiety during the session. And a young 12 year old’s parents told me that within the first few sessions, his anxiety at returning to school had decreased greatly.  This young man was aware it and  his parents could tell as well immediately.

I suppose an analogy is appropriate here.  If I decided to begin an exercise program to make some health changes in my life, I would be unrealistic if I thought that say, ten times going to the gym, or dojo, or yoga studio would be sufficient to reach my goal. It would take what it would take, depending on the sophistication of the exercise that I was doing, my perseverance to a regular practice, my current physical state which includes my health history, and so on.

It is the same with this approach.  Think of this a working with a personal trainer. You won’t continue if you don’t experience some noticeable benefit within say ten visits; but also know that you will be kidding yourself if you don’t give it time to shift some of the negative brain patterns that have taken years to accumulate.

One young man tells me that he is no longer depressed though he was depressed all his life, and I have only seen him 12 times.  So from 10 to 25 session is the norm, depending on your situation.  I am seeing a women now who has been suffering deeply for 3 years.  She has not been able to work, despondent and in despair.  After 18 sessions she is more functional, becoming less isolated and more social, and her family and other therapists notice it too.

I have heard about brainwaves; can you show tell me more?

Here is a pdf document that will explain what the various brainwaves are and what they control in your life.

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How often do I need to come for sessions?

This essentially is up to you, though I recommend (as does Zengar Institute) at least two sessions or more per week, to get momentum on the training process. Less than this will take more sessions in my experience.

But again, you are the ultimate one who decides on what you need or what you can do.    As Zengar Institute (essentially the designer Dr.Valdeane Browne) continues to evolve this approach, we are seeing better and better benefits for clients.

Case Study

Six year old Evan (not his real name) was brought in by his parents because he was having allot of issues. If he became upset at school, he was almost inconsolable and for long periods of time.  If he had a conflict at school, he would retreat and isolate rather than be able to adapt to the situation.  He was affraid of getting germs and was hyper-sensitive to many situations.  They had tried many therapies but still he continued to have these concerns.

Within a number of sessions, they began to notice dramatic differences in these negative behaviors.  Now when upset, it lasts only for a short time and then he is back to his normal, chipper self.  He stopped obsessing about germs altogether, and when there is an interpersonal conflict at school, he is able to adapt to it just fine. They used the word ‘miracles’ for the changes that they are seeing in him.  And his therapist and teachers are sharing with his parents the wonderful changes that they are seeing.

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A bit about my background…

I have been working with clients in private practice since 1984, helping them deal with the negative effects of stress, trauma, and overload in their lives. Most of that time was in New York City, and then Washington, D.C., Chicago, and now Boulder/Denver.

I have always had a strong passion for understanding how stress and overload affects our behavior, personality, and consequently causes us distress and ultimately illness.  Whether that suffering comes in the form of attentional or  focus issues, anxiety or depression, interpersonal or performance blocks, unresolved stress; it is now proven to be at the root of our mental, emotional, vital, spiritual, and physical dysfunction.

I bring over 25 years of experience to my work in assisting clients in resolving issues that often remain unresolved with other approaches and therapies, including depression, sleep issues, traumatic brain injury, trauma in general, and anxiety. Along side this unique, non-linear neurofeedback approach, one of the most important other elements of this ability to help folks is the relationship which we establish from our first interaction and to our final farewell.  It is well known through established research that our interaction is key to any success, no matter what modality we are utilizing.

The other element that strengthens what I do is that I have other tools that I bring with me; trained and licensed psychotherapist, licensed and certified in various therapeutic manual therapies that I use when it’s necessary to resolve trauma held in the body. I am trained in EDMR psychotherapist for trauma resolution and use this if appropriate when an old trauma comes up to be resolved.

I am a trained psychotherapist with a Masters in Counseling Psychology with a Professional Counselor License in Colorado.  I have additionally worked as a Clinical Supervisor at Access Counseling in Boulder, a community mental health agency where I have helped in training therapists in the counseling internship phase of their education.

Please contact me if you wish, and I am always happy to answer any questions or discuss your particular situation to see if you are a good candidate for what I offer.  I promise that will never ’sell’ you; I feel that you know best about what you or your children need, and since no-one knows you (or your children) better that you do. I look forward to hearing from you.

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David Delaney, MA, CAR,  LPC

Colorado Licensed Professional Counselor

2 Office Locations:

BOULDER

5717 Arapahoe Ave., #6 west
Boulder, Colorado 80303
Office: 303-449-2004

Take Arapahoe Ave. going east, cross 55th Street and take the third left.  The parking lot sign reads “Burning Tree”.  Go past the first 3 buildings to the 4th two story white concrete building with the sign that reads “offices/warehouse”. Keep 5717 on your right (mountains are on your left) and park before or after the sign above the entrance that reads “Living Design“.  This is the entrance up to the 2nd floor waiting area at the top of the stairs.                                                                                                                                                        View  Map

DENVER

4340 East Kentucky Avenue                                                                                                  Suite 445 , Denver, CO.

East of Colorado Blvd., between I-25 and Cherry Creek North and South,  near the Whole Foods, Staples, and Home Depot Store.                                               View  Map